Perfection

In a perfect world we’d get a new pickup every 4-6 years- or at 100 thousand miles instead of driving the ones we have into the ground. But in the scheme of things that doesn’t matter.

In a perfect world, I’d have a bigger house that had a split bed-room layout, a real master suite, with a closet that’s bigger than a postage stamp and a bathroom that is big enough for two. But in the scheme of things, it’s not important.

In a perfect world, we’d have a 150×200 foot barn to ride in. All. Glorious. Year. Long! The grass would never be short; save for winter, and we’d have rain every month as needed. But in the scheme of things, we can get by with our 40X100 barn and make do with the weather patterns that Mother Nature Gives us.

In a perfect world, the horse market wouldn’t be in the tank. It’d be back to 2005 levels and we’d see a decent return on our investment in these colts of ours. But we’re still alive and eating, so in the scheme of things, we’ll survive.

While those things may not be ‘perfect’, my world and my life, certainly is.

I am able to get up everyday and do what I want to do that day. I can go ride a horse, start a colt, make jewelry, play the guitar, pack up the camera to take pictures, hang out with my chickens, or cook amazing things for someone who’ll enjoy them. In the scheme of things, I’m so blessed, and I do my best to not take that for granted.

I have a man that adores me and would do anything for me, a family that loves me, we live in some of the prettiest country known to this land, and I have the ability to choose how happy I am going to be each day. I can look at the negatives in my life, or I can focus on the positives, and that makes my life perfect! I have everything I need and most of what I want.

This Spin on Perfection is brought to you by Jen, at Sprite’s Keeper. I suggest if you want to see more spins on utopia, that you head over there, post haste!

Have a great weekend, y’all!

Fall Shots in Photos

It’s no secret that fall is one of my favorite times of year. Maybe it’s the birthdays, or maybe it’s that the weather has cooled down or that the colors are changing as the earth prepares to go to sleep for the winter. Regardless I can also add “Fall Work” into the category of things that make me love fall. We gave our fall shots a couple weekends ago and while I didn’t take the camera with me for the gather- which ended up to be a good choice, because Gump and I had to do a lot of galloping and changing directions due to the fact that a few cows were going everywhere other than where they were supposed to go, I did keep it on me in the corral for a couple of sorts (where we separate the mama cows from their calves for a short while). I will walk you through the day in pictures. Enjoy.

The first photo of the day, The Gump:

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Heading down the alley to help them sort:

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Saddle horses in the east corral; from R-L: Wyatt, Stitch, Dino, Ranger and Chachi (Dino’s daddy).

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Stitch thought he’d eat or at least sniff Sharon’s Jacket:

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Hey there Mama!

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Gump watching intently, like a good ranch horse should:

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Well hello there #172!

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For those of you wondering, we haven’t pulled our bulls yet. They wish we would. And for those of you wondering what that is all about, I’ll explain. The bulls are really all finished with their work. Every cow that can be bred should be bred by this time, and the bulls have traveled and worked hard all summer and they’re ready to be done. Never thought testosterone worked that way, eh? Well when it comes to bulls it does.

Find the hole, Buddy!

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Here’s some misfit calves- these are the non-black hided calves that won’t make the load. Sometimes when you raise angus calves you get a red one once in a while. And there’s some older cows that aren’t black, still in our herd from past days; plus we have some new angus cows that were crossed with herefords, so there’s a lot of red, bald faced calves in the herd this year.

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Here’s the chute we’ll run the calves down to doctor them.

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Here they are going down the chute:

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Burt, our helper and Zach’s cousin, will hold the calves. I’m the back up, sitting on Gump.

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Then the real fun starts:

They get poured with a de-wormer (an anti-parasitic), then they get the same two shots that we gave them in the spring. Those shots are given subcutaneously- so under the skin they go. Typically they’re given in the neck area.

I love that man!

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Zach and his youngest brother, Bud.

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Handsomest cowboy ever:

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Zach’s other brother (there are three of them you know), Guthrie, has finally showed up with the pour on. Not that he was slacking. I’m not sure where he was to be honest. I was too busy taking pictures to pay that much attention.

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I love this next series of photos because it’s three of the four boys in this family working together. And please pardon the photos. These are not my best work. I was having major issues with the lens that morning.

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We got done working the first set we’d sorted, so it was time to bring more cattle down the alley.

Here’s JuJu, Guth’s daughter, riding one of the ranch’s studs, Banjo; next to her is Jim.

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We sorted off about half of the cows that were left, and drove them down the alley, into the pen where we’d sort off the mamas.

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You can see our house on the hill in the background here:

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Zach is riding DX Iam Nuked, also known as Dozer. He is heaven in horse form. And is for sale.

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Where this Charolais calf came from, I have NO idea!

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Hi Wyatt, Festus and Dino (both the latter are Gump’s Brothers)!

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Hey Girl!

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There were flies and dust everywhere. It was a cool morning, but it warmed up the later into the afternoon we got.

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They looked like they’re packed in this corral like sardines. I assure you they’re not. We really do as much as we can to keep the cattle and calves from stressing.

There’s one lone red cow in this photo. That cow belongs to Kelsey. She has quite a colorful herd.

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This heifer calf has lost her fly tag from her right ear.

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Mama! Where are you?

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Have I mentioned it that it is loud when you give fall shots, or do any sort of doctoring, or sorting, or branding on your calves?

And finally, a photo of yours truly:

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That’s about how fall shots worked this year. I hope you enjoyed this glimpse into my life. I’ll be giving more fall shots this weekend as we help Jim and Sharon, who helped us this day.

I hope that whatever y’all have planned for the weekend is just as much fun as what I’ll be doing!

Spinning in Redemption

I have not participated in the Spin Cycle in like forevah, but it’s because I’ve been busy. I really miss reading what everyone else has to say on any given subject- and Jen (the keeper of the Spin Cycle) always keeps us on our toes. This week the topic was “religion” and I can’t think of a better place to jump back in to the fray.

I grew up in church. A non-denominational Bible Church to be exact. And frankly, that’s how I’d like to stay- non-denominational. My first husband was a Baptist. Nothing against Baptists- unless you’re a member of the Westboro church of Freaks in Topeka, Ks. Then you’re not on my good list, but hey, I’m not judging. It’s your right to say “God Hates Fags”, just as it’s my right to vehemently disagree with you and your methods. I’m not sure how you’re spreading the message that “God is love” that way, but whatevs. I don’t have to answer for those actions. My second husband was a stereotypical guilt ridden Catholic. I’ve nothing against Catholics either- I actually used to attend Mass with him. The rub, for at least me anyway, comes from the fact that only Catholics can do communion in the Catholic faith. But that’s neither here not there.

You see, I believe that it doesn’t matter what “religion” you belong to, or what “religion” you practice. I believe that what matters is that you believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross to save your soul. That’s it, plain and simple. You can be purple, blue polka-dotted, a transvestite, a prostitute, gay, a homophobe (like pastor Fred Phelps whose church I mentioned above), bi-sexual, a girl that got pregnant as a teenager, a drug addict, or a boozer, and well, God still loves YOU. He may not love the choices you make, but the beauty in having a relationship with Christ is that none of that matters.

Now, that’s not saying that we shouldn’t go to church or be involved in helping our community or set examples of how to live a good life, share and show love, or even follow what’s in The Bible- I’m simply breaking it down to what I believe to my very core. And frankly too many churches and “religions” have forgotten that. Gays find themselves on the outs; pregnant teenage girls also find themselves on the outs- because sex is a taboo subject in Judeo-Christian homes; and if you don’t talk about it and educate the kids about it, they’ll just feel like they can’t bring it up and then the guilt sets in. Sex addicts, drug addicts, and the like, all feel like they have to hide their struggles, lest they be judged. And, I don’t know about the rest of you, but that’s not what my God has in mind for anyone He loves.

The fact is we’re all only human. We all struggle with things- be it our mouths, an addiction or something else. But that doesn’t lessen God’s love for us. Our choices are our choices. After all, God did give us each a free will. And I may not agree with your choice, but that doesn’t mean I should love you less, treat you like less of a person, or make you feel bad because you chose to do something I disagree with. My job is to love you anyway. And that’s what it’s all about. Jesus did it. So can we.

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Spinning in A Holiday

When you can get up every morning and do what your heart desires, every day is a holiday.

When you periodically find cows in your yard, every day is a holiday.

When you see smiling kids doing what they enjoy, every day is a holiday.

Ty, Julissa (our niece), and Kara (our summer intern)

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Kelsey and her awesome horse, Polmol at the Ft. Pierre, SD Regional Rodeo

When there’s a good dog around, every day is a holiday.

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When the person that puts the “er” in your happy, gets to spend his days with you, and you with him, riding, helping others, or working together, every day is a holiday.

Zach teaching some budding 4-H horsemen some skills, in Gettysburg, SD.

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Techie, Anyone?

If it were not for Amazon.com, I think my life would be a complete loss.

Well, okay, not a complete loss, but since we do live miles and miles from town, and UPS, as well as FedEx deliver to our door, it makes things a LOT easier. Forget to buy something in town that can be shipped? No problemo! Amazon.com has almost everything!

And none of this would be made possible without technology!

On some levels, technology is awesome: it makes life more convenient. Records can be kept online or on the computer; balancing the checkbook is a snap. I have email on my phone so I can reply to people on the go!

On other levels, I think we’re way too connected in this world! It scares me sometimes, how much information is out there about us, how easy it is to share about our lives and even how easy it is for someone to steal your identity.

On an agriculture related note, technology has made farmer’s lives better, and is allowing them to be more efficient. How, you’re asking yourself? Well, GPS of course! Most new tractors come equipped with a GPS system, that has the computer doing the driving, and the farmer, well he can just sit back and “relax” until it’s time to turn that bad-boy around. They’ve found by using GPS systems when they plant that they increase the amount of land that can be cultivated, because the computer can stay on track better than any person!

The tall and short of it is, technology is my friend, and I figure it’s kind of here to stay!

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Spinning in Stress

We’ve all heard them- the little dittys:

Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Be the bigger person.
Don’t let that person (insert name) and their (insert action) affect you.

I do my very best to lead a stress free life.

I try to stay level headed and calm and do what is going to keep me that way. Even if it means not spending time with people who put knots in my back.

I don’t fuss about the person going 50mph in a 65 mph speed zone. I can’t control their speed. So why worry about it?

I try not to be upset about people doing stupid things- after all people will do stupid things. But why worry about it? Most of the time their stupidity doesn’t affect me so I choose not to stress about it.

If I know a person to be a certain way, I don’t fret about it when they do exactly what they’re going to do based on who they are.

My mantra- “I can only control me”, makes my life pretty much stress-free. And I like it that way.

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A Role in the Hay

Well not really, but this week’s Spin is about roles, and I figured what a better way to get your attention than with a title like that, right?

I am a woman; a friend; a sister; a daughter to parents and God; a wife (sort of!) and step mother; a best friend; a cowgirl; a horseman.

My Facebook page has my job title listed as “Ranch Diva”. I do the ranch marketing where the horse program is concerned. I can ride the “range”. Start colts. Rope. I have my own fashion sense, and my nails are more often painted, than not.

I’m a horseman on a journey toward becoming an even better horseman. I am short of patience, but learning to have more. And someday I might become even become a Buckaroo (the Gringo name for a Vaquero: the Spanish name for a top-hand cowboy who made bridle horses). That’d be just fine by me.

In my own mind I’m a world-class chef. And don’t tell Zach’s mom (or sister)- but he says I’m the best. Cook. Ever.

I’m my own interior designer, and I’m good at it.

My life is a journey. I’m still evolving into the person that I desire to be. I get closer everyday to a girl who doesn’t worry, doesn’t stress, and isn’t concerned with time, where horses and ranching are concerned. I’m only painting the backdrop right now- the finer details are still to come. Someday I’ll be a mom. And I’ll be a Rock-star in the eyes of my kids. I’d like to be a contestant at the NFR. I’ll make a bridle horse or 10. I’ll be Zach’s partner in crime, and life, until death do us part.

The role I play in my life, is something different daily- and it makes me better. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

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Spinning in Quotes


I realize I’ve been absent from the weekly Spin Cycle that Jen over at Sprites Keeper moderates, because, frankly, it’s springtime here in South Dakota, and that means that I am an otherwise BUSY, busy, cowgirl. There are calves everywhere! And baby goats too (I promise there will be photos of the happy goat family this week)! There’s colts and horses to ride, and yearlings to halter break, then they had to be moved to their summer home. Horses and cattle are places they shouldn’t be, because the mama cows are shedding their winter coats, and rub the gates open because they’re scratching. Which creates an additional need to be horseback because there’s constantly bovines and equines in the wrong places. And of course, a cowgirl never complains about getting to ride a good horse, on a pretty day, through God’s country. But it does make for some long days!

Anyway, that’s enough excuses. Let’s get down to the meat and potatoes of this week’s Spin- Quotes.

She would give us an assignment, my first week back, for which I have little, if any fodder.

I can quote “The Man From Snowy River” verbatim. I’ve watched that movie at least a hundred times. It hardly applies to my daily, life, however. And I don’t bust out with the lines, unless I’m watching the movie.

I know one of my favorite quotes is from some unknown source:

“God crafted no better tonic for a man’s heart, than the thunder of hooves under a star-lit night”.

I know that horseman, Buck Brannaman says: “Horses and life; it’s all the same to me”. He’s right, you know.

I am beginning to quote some famous horsemen on a more daily basis, but really, that’s where Zach comes in.

Not only does my cowboy sound like a broken record of Ray Hunt (a famous horseman and Buck Brannaman’s mentor) he intersperses that with Buck Brannaman and Lonesome Dove on a DAILY Basis. Now I’ve only seen Lonesome Dove a couple of times- so the quotes are lost on me- I never know when he’s quoting the movie because I’ve not seen it enough to know when he throws one out there. It’s kinda not fair. Or something. Other than Lonesome Dove, what he quotes to me, wouldn’t really make much sense to the rest of you, because it’s all about horses and horsemanship. The only one that would is “make the right thing easy and the wrong thing difficult. Then set it up and wait”.

But enough about all that too.

On Day Four of the Buck Brannaman Clinic he shared a quote from Teddy Roosevelt with the group, and it was one of the best things I’d ever heard. Especially for me, because of where I was at that very moment in my life. I’d been dealing with someone who fit the very individual in the below quote:

“It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.”

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Me Me Me Me Me….

I am going to be gone this weekend to a clinic- remember I mentioned this a couple weeks ago? So you’ll get to read some awesome writing from some other bloggers out there, beginning tomorrow. I may be around this weekend, or I may not- I’m not sure how much time I’ll have but you can bet, when I do get back on Monday night, I’m going to have enough  photos and fodder to keep us entertained for quite some time.  In the meantime I have been a bad, bad, lazy, lazy Spinner so I thought it was time to join in again.

This week, the Keeper of Sprite- also known as Jen, tasked us with writing as spin about ourselves. Scary I know.  And since there’s been some changes in my life, I figured I would write about the things I’ve learned about myself in the past couple years.

To begin with I have learned that life can be stress free. Yes, I actually live in a world with no worries and no cares. Don’t get me wrong, I do fret about the occasional bill, or if money is tight one month, how we’re going to pay it, but inevitably these things always work themselves out.  It is what it is, and if I can’t change it, I am not going to worry about it. I will do what I can to affect the outcome, but if I can’t affect it, I am not going to fret. I have way less knots in my back as a result of this.

I have also learned, just in the past couple of weeks, that my actions are my choices. And if someone doesn’t like my choices, that’s their problem, NOT mine. Only I have to live with myself (well the Cowboy lives with me too and he desires nothing for me but my happiness).  I let two ex-husbands control me, friends don’t get that option.  I let that go on too long.  And if that *friend* wants to control what I say to whom, and what I do and to whom and why, they’re not really my friend to begin with.

I have learned that I do not have to have people in my life whose only desire is to sabotage my every move, every desire of my heart or who need to tear me down to build themselves up. That person has no place in MY life.  And I’m better for it.

If someone who is your *friend* desires to re-asses the friendship every few months, because you annoy them, they hate your blog, they believe you are fake, and/or that you desire to have a million and one friends you don’t need them either. It is never okay for anyone to treat you badly, and if they’re doing it in an under-handed manner and it’s hard to spot, that’s even less forgivable. That said, life is too short for bitterness or childish behavior, so I will continue to be me, and be the girl I love, the girl that the cowboy loves, the girl that lots of people find fun. I won’t harbor animosity.

I have also learned that I am not a quitter. When the going got rough and tough in my previous two marriages, I didn’t throw in the towel at the first sign of unrest. Like a horse that has trouble understanding what I’m trying to teach it, I did everything in my power to see if the situation(s) could be resolved.  I didn’t just sell that horse and get another one. When it became clear that it couldn’t be resolved, that is when I left. I am sick to death of the attitude that, I can’t blame my previous lack of self confidence on the exes, because I’m the one that stayed. Until you’ve been in a situation with an abusive spouse you better keep your mouth shut.  Again, my choice, is my choice, not yours.  And you don’t get to judge me for MY choice.

I am learning that I can live my life without the approval of my parents or *friends*.  That I am free to be who I want, make the choices I want, and that they are between me and my God.

I have learned that I can spot passive/aggressive behavior a mile away.

I have learned that psychic vampires will suck the life out of you.

I have learned that true friends love you despite your quirks. In fact, some of them love you for them!

I have learned that letting go is sometimes easier said than done, but I’m going to do it.

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Spinning in Necessity

As is per usual for this week’s Spin Cycle, I procrastinated and waited until the morning it was due to write it and turn it in. This week’s topic is on things you can’t live without. I guess I wouldn’t even get this done if it weren’t for Father Time.

The smart ass in me wants to say that I can’t live without life- and obviously this week’s events clearly have put that in the forefront of my mind.

However, I don’t think Jen quite had that in mind when she thought up this week’s subject so I’ll see how short I can make this list.

While I would manage/or am managing to survive without the following life just wouldn’t be the same if you’re me:

Zach- really this one should be self explanatory. He treats me better than anyone ever has. Loves me more than I believed it was humanly possible to love, and puts up with me when I have psychotic woman moments (which are few and far between).

Horses- God’s original therapist. I don’t need to say more.

My trusty, cast iron skillet- My mother doesn’t have one, and do you know how many meals I’ve cooked since I’ve been here? Two. Dos. That’s it. She was so excited to have me around; then I go and disappoint because cooking in her pots and pans is simply not the same. Plus she keeps different things in her kitchen than do I, so every time I want to cook something I have to go to the grocery store first. Not something that the woman who hates to hook and un-hook her horse trailer really enjoys doing.  I am, however, still alive and probably weigh less for it!

The internet- it’s my lifeblood. Ok, well not really. But I do love it. I can shop on it, talk to and keep up with friends with it, and now I can see Zach on it via Skype and the nifty invention known as the web-cam!

A Cell Phone- Maureen covered this one nicely.

A big truck and trailer- obviously I need this so my therapists and I can go places and hang out.

I’m also inclined to add the sun to this list, because I’ve seen it so infrequently lately that I now know, I could never live in Seattle.

What is it that you couldn’t live without? I’d love to know!

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