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Adventures from The Rodeo Road

April 11, 2017 by ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~ 3 Comments

So far, the rodeo road has taught me a lot, but I’ve yet to win a check for my efforts.

At Valley City, ND, my first ever pro rodeo I was pretty nervous and Avie felt like he never settled into the ground. He stumbled on the second, and really shut down hard on the third. We were way off the pace.  I have no idea why this isn’t showing the whole video but I think you can see it on my Facebook page! 

Many thanks to my friend Julia for filming! XO!

I then headed to Verndale, MN, which wasn’t short of its own trials. I spent Thursday, before I was to head out Friday, de-winterizing my trailer, only to have my hot water heater explode. This kind of flooded my trailer. Luckily in Verndale, they have a trailer shop right next to the arena complex, and they were able to (mostly) fix me up on Friday with a little bit of work to be done on Saturday. I was pretty excited for a hot shower Saturday night! In addition to the trailer adventures, Friday’s run, I sat down too soon on the first and because Avie is so honest, he turned in front of it. I then spent the rest of the weekend panicked, riding like a monkey, hitting barrels left and right, fighting the urge to cry before each run. Basically, I had my head up my posterior.

Here is our Saturday run:

Sunday he was a tenth faster but we drug the second barrel down when we left it.

From Verndale we came home, regrouped and then headed to Nebraska.

While there, I had the chance to catch up with a very talented friend of mine, meet her new baby, get to know her husband, cruise horseback around their ranch near Hyannis and otherwise had time to get my collective poop in a group. 

The Nebraska Sandhills are gorgeous!

The border collie creep!

Windmills and Hills. The Sandhills are enchanting!

It's a scene from a movie!

I truly thought I had myself in a better place mentally, but once again found myself fighting back the urge to cry before our run on Saturday – which by the way, actually felt pretty great, yet was way off the pace. A friend had watched me run and told me I quit riding before the timer. Note to self: don’t do this tomorrow.

And then came Sunday, where the urge to cry before my run overcame me. I went to the horn too soon going to the first and we had to do a bit of adjusting to get around it, costing us at least .4 – .5 tenths of a second. And I quit him too soon coming home. Sigh.

I had totally chickened out and didn’t ride my horse to the best of my ability. I was letting the fact that I bought my WPRA permit, get to my head and I quit trusting in myself or the work I’ve put into getting with my horse. 

I ran at the bottom of the WPRA sidepot. Both Days. The only people I beat were those that hit barrels. This permit had become a chip on my shoulder. I mean, what do I really have to prove to anyone? My job is to do the best job I can do for my horse, to be the best for my horse. End of story.

A pep talk from a talented colleague encouraged me to simply ignore the fact that I had bought my permit, and to start trusting my horse. So, I headed from Nebraska to Longmont, Colorado determined to just have fun! I had fought back the urge to cry before both my runs in Nebraska. Where’s the fun in that? Why did I want to cry? I couldn’t tell you, except that I was letting negative thoughts get the best of me, which in turn didn’t help me, help my horse. Thank you DG for the pep-talk! And thank you AS for always being encouraging! And to my friend SR who didn’t get to make this trip, but continually kicks me in the ass when I need it. 

Once in Colorado, I finally relaxed, let down, and in turn, we laid down a solid 2D time that landed us one out of the money on Friday.


On Saturday, I galloped in — determined to do what I’d done on Friday — and 28 horses in, I left the arena, having clocked the fastest time of the day (so far) and it held, through about 45 horses. We finished 4th that day too, again, one out of the money, BUT behind a girl who qualified to run at THE AMERICAN! Way to go, Avie! Way to ride Jenn! And of course, there is no video. I mean, why would I ask a perfect stranger to film me?


Sunday, we smoked the first barrel, barely left room for a piece of paper around the second but I failed to go to two hands around the third and as such when I went to pick my horse up to turn, I found a little brace in him.  We finished 13th in the 2D that day. 


I had a great time in Colorado, spending time with my dear friend, enjoying my horses and mostly great weather! The whole trip was good for my soul, even if my runs in Nebraska weren’t what I envisioned in my head. 

I am home now, handling some colts and getting ready to go to the Sandhills Showdown, in Nebraska and from there to the BBR Finals in Oklahoma City. Needless to say, I’m itching to get back into the arena, have fun, trust and enjoy my horse! I’m learning to look for the learning opportunities around me, and in each “failure” grow. I am a little lot afraid of failure, and often, I become so paralyzed with fear I forget to even try.

I’ll keep working on that, and hopefully my next trip will bear fruitful results! If you want to say a prayer, or think positive thoughts for us, we’ll sure take ’em!

Happy Trails!

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About ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~

Jenn Zeller is the creative mind and boss lady behind The South Dakota Cowgirl. She is an aspiring horsewoman, photographer, brilliant social media strategist and lover of all things western.

After a brief career in the investment world to support her horse habit (and satisfy her mother, who told her she had to have a “real” job after graduating college), she finally took the leap and stepped away from a regular income; trading the business suit once and for all for cowgirl boots, a hat, and jeans. She has not looked back.

When Jenn first moved to The DX Ranch on the South Dakota plains, she never imagined she’d find herself behind a camera lens capturing an authentic perspective of ranching, and sharing it with others. Jenn has always been called to artistry, and uses music, writing, images, home improvement, and her first true love of horses to express her ranching passion.

Horses are the constant thread and much of her work centers around using her unique style of writing to share her horsemanship journey with others in publications such as CavvySavvy, the AQHA Ranching Blog, the West River Eagle, the family ranch website, and her own website.

Using photography to illustrate her stories has created other opportunities -- Jenn’s brand “The South Dakota Cowgirl” has grown to the level of social media “Influencer”. This notoriety has led to work with Duluth Trading Company, Budweiser, Wyoming Tourism, Vice, Circle Z Ranch and Art of the Cowgirl, to name a few. She also serves as a brand ambassador for Woodchuck USA, Arenus Equine Health, Triple Crown Feed and Just Strong fitness apparel. Her photography has been featured by Instagram, Apple, TIME Magazine, The Huffington Post, and Oprah Magazine. Jenn’s work has been published internationally, has been seen in several books and has graced the covers of several magazines.

Jenn became a social media influencer by accident when she started to explore Instagram as a way to share her life on the ranch with folks that don’t get to experience it. It’s grown into an incredible platform that she uses to empower women, create an environment for self improvement and share life on the ranch.

When she’s not working, she loves to drink coffee, play with her naughty border collie named Copper, start ranch colts, and run about the country chasing cans. Her mother still thinks she doesn’t have a “real” job.

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  1. Krista Lucas says

    April 11, 2017 at 5:22 pm

    i know exactly how you feel.. loved reading this & love your blog! Sincerely, a fellow cowgirl, writer, rancher, and dreaded permit holder 🙂

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    • ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~ says

      April 12, 2017 at 12:02 pm

      I’m not going to view my permit as a “dread”. I don’t think you meant it that way either. I’m going to keep pretending I don’t have it, and ride my horse like I stole him! 😉

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  2. Jen Trevino says

    April 12, 2017 at 8:40 am

    It took a lot of courage to admit fault on you barrel runs publically I am proud of you for that very humble great way to learn life’s lessons. I had a hot water heater burst n destroy my trailer I was sad too.

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