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Be A Light

October 17, 2016 by ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~

Today, we have a very special guest writer. A woman that I was fortunate enough to meet at the 2016 Buck Brannaman Clinic in Rapid City, agreed to share her story, and it is awesome.

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Northern Light Coffee, sex trafficking, domestic abuse, sexual assualtMy name is Rachel Stephenson, I am from the beautiful Washington state where I founded Northern Light Coffee in 2015.

Our mission is to offer the best coffee and be a light for girls out of human trafficking.

Growing up in WA, I spent most of my time riding my horses or working at my mother’s coffee shop. I learned how to roast coffee when I was 12 years old and worked in the industry throughout my undergraduate studies and business school.

Northern Light Coffee, sex trafficking, domestic abuse, sexual assualt

Years ago, I heard a statistic that I’ve never bothered to look up, simply because I know there’s no way to prove that this percentage is indeed much higher. One in 4 women are sexually abused. Women are abused on a regular basis. I have witnessed this countless times over the years. Going through college, working in bars, and living my own life has showed me that abuse is rampant in our world.

In my life, abuse started at a young age and has continued, to some degree, as I’ve grown older. I have been raped multiple times, had customers try to undress me at work, so-called “gentleman” have tried to drug me and take advantage. The numbers of times I’ve been assaulted physically or verbally are completely unacceptable. They broke me for many years. I exaggerated my problems by drinking, partying, and racking up multiple arrests and charges.

Fortunately, I was called to go on a mission trip to Cambodia in 2012. The first day I walked into Cambodia’s Rapha House, was the day the real Rachel Stephenson emerged. Everything in my life had been leading up to that moment in time. Rapha in Hebrew means healing. Rapha House offers healing for girls rescued out of human trafficking. It’s ironic how I went to help others heal but I needed to heal myself.

I looked around and saw beautiful little girls of all ages. The youngest was 4 years old. The anger I felt regarding my past had crippled me from moving forward. I felt guilt and shame for the way that I chose to deal with my problems. I was letting the devil destroy a beautiful life because I was unwilling to forgive. Those little girls saved me that day. For that, I will never stop fighting for them!

I have devoted my life to this cause and I will never give up. Our vision is to create an army of coffee drinkers across the U.S through the geographic expansion of our mentoring program. Our goal is to have a full mentoring/apprenticeship program specifically for girls who have experienced abuse in their life. Our program is designed to teach the foundation for a holistic approach to life: financial freedom/career satisfaction, physical wellness, and spiritual wellness. We believe these are all important to creating a lasting lifestyle that is both satisfying and sustainable.

We aren’t ready to implement this next stage yet. Currently we donate proceeds from our coffee to human trafficking shelters. Our hope is that you will visit our website and purchase coffee to help us move closer to our goals.

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Thank you, Rachel, for all that you do, for sharing your story, and for helping other women heal!

Now for the fun: to thank all of you for reading and supporting our efforts to talk about domestic violence and sexual abuse, and to promote Rachel’s amazing coffee (that I’ve been fortunate enough to sample), I’ll be giving away four bags! Yes, FOUR! Four of you lucky readers are going to get to choose the coffee you want, and we’ll get it sent out to you!

To enter: leave a comment about how the series of posts this month have helped you, let us know what you’ve learned, or how it may have changed your view on this often ‘taboo’ subject or simply tell us how you’re going to “be a light”. For an extra entry, leave a separate comment to tell me you’ve followed Rachel on Instagram, or Facebook (Links below). Also, tweet any of the posts from this blog since October 1, using #IAmWorthy as the hashtag. Contest closes at midnight, Friday the 21st. Good luck!

Make sure you follow Rachel on Instagram, and Facebook.

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About ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~

Jenn Zeller is the creative mind and boss lady behind The South Dakota Cowgirl. She is an aspiring horsewoman, photographer, brilliant social media strategist and lover of all things western.

After a brief career in the investment world to support her horse habit (and satisfy her mother, who told her she had to have a “real” job after graduating college), she finally took the leap and stepped away from a regular income; trading the business suit once and for all for cowgirl boots, a hat, and jeans. She has not looked back.

When Jenn first moved to The DX Ranch on the South Dakota plains, she never imagined she’d find herself behind a camera lens capturing an authentic perspective of ranching, and sharing it with others. Jenn has always been called to artistry, and uses music, writing, images, home improvement, and her first true love of horses to express her ranching passion.

Horses are the constant thread and much of her work centers around using her unique style of writing to share her horsemanship journey with others in publications such as CavvySavvy, the AQHA Ranching Blog, the West River Eagle, the family ranch website, and her own website.

Using photography to illustrate her stories has created other opportunities -- Jenn’s brand “The South Dakota Cowgirl” has grown to the level of social media “Influencer”. This notoriety has led to work with Duluth Trading Company, Budweiser, Wyoming Tourism, Vice, Circle Z Ranch and Art of the Cowgirl, to name a few. She also serves as a brand ambassador for Woodchuck USA, Arenus Equine Health, Triple Crown Feed and Just Strong fitness apparel. Her photography has been featured by Instagram, Apple, TIME Magazine, The Huffington Post, and Oprah Magazine. Jenn’s work has been published internationally, has been seen in several books and has graced the covers of several magazines.

Jenn became a social media influencer by accident when she started to explore Instagram as a way to share her life on the ranch with folks that don’t get to experience it. It’s grown into an incredible platform that she uses to empower women, create an environment for self improvement and share life on the ranch.

When she’s not working, she loves to drink coffee, play with her naughty border collie named Copper, start ranch colts, and run about the country chasing cans. Her mother still thinks she doesn’t have a “real” job.

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  1. Amanda says

    October 17, 2016 at 11:26 am

    I love following you and is series. You have been such an inspiration to me over the last two years since leaving my abuser. It has been nice to know that other strong women have gone through it too and that it doesn’t make us weak. Love Endorophens really moved me last week – The way she put into terms what the seek out.

    Thank you for all that you do to shed a light on abuse and for making me, and I’m sure many others, feel less alone in my healing process.

    I try to spread only love to other women. Men bring us down enough. Maybe if we build each other up more there will be less of us willing to let men tear us down.

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  2. Sarah Rheinbolt says

    October 18, 2016 at 5:50 am

    I’m so proud of you for sharing your story, and also for the others that have shared their stories. Only by talking and being upfront about these kinds of circumstances can real change happen.

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  3. Sarah Rheinbolt says

    October 18, 2016 at 5:51 am

    I’ve also followed Rachel’s business page on Facebook. :). Now, to share this post ?

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  4. Caitlyn M says

    October 19, 2016 at 11:21 am

    Love your blog and stories you share. I have been emotionally abused before by an ex and was never allowed to have any friends or anything. It’s nice to read your stories. Thank you.

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  5. Abby Prather says

    October 20, 2016 at 9:27 am

    It is inspiring to see negative experiences become catalysts for positive change. I would say I think, but those would be the wrong words, because i KNOW many women are touched by abuse who suffer silently. Be it shame, embarrassment or a slew of other self-inflicted painful words that can really turn someone inward, too fearful to even be themselves. You never know who might see these posts and become brave enough to shed the fear and realize their potential. You never know who might see these and finally be able to think, hey . . . maybe I’m not the only one. Maybe what someone else did to me isn’t my fault. Maybe I am still good, maybe it’s ok to be me. I am enough.
    Very proud of all of these brave women for sharing their stories and empowering those who haven’t.

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  6. Terryn says

    October 20, 2016 at 10:00 am

    It was with teary eyes and an aching, prayerful heart that I read through the stories shared in this series. In junior high, I was in a relationship that was never physically abusive, but was definitely verbally abusive. I know what kind of hell that was, but I cannot even begin to imagine what kind of hell these women lived.

    Thank you so much for this series, raising awareness and giving women a voice!

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  7. Lisa Ingrassia says

    October 20, 2016 at 10:30 am

    Thank you for sharing your story. This is the only way we can help others, by talking and sharing XO

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  8. Naomi says

    October 20, 2016 at 10:51 am

    Hello, I followed Rachel, I love her IG!!

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  9. Taysha Reitzel says

    October 21, 2016 at 10:08 am

    This series has been amazing and eye opening. I believe it is incredibly empowering to hear these stories and how these women have come out on top and better than ever. Well done Jenn!!

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