How people simply make assumptions about what is going on in a person’s life based simply on what they see or even hear through the grapevine?
There are times when what you see isn’t at all the real picture, and to make an assumption based on speculation is simply a childish attempt to rationalize, oftentimes, the short-comings in a person’s own life.
Either way, I try not to make assumptions about people’s lives based simply on what I see or hear, or think I see or hear. If it’s none of my business I’ll simply stay out of it, and if it might involve me I typically keep quiet until I’ve decided for sure that what I think I see or hear is really the crux of what’s going on.
Ian says
I feel sorry for you people who don’t know everything.
I have all the answers. ;-P
Hang in there, Jen. It’ll get better.
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Ve says
uh oh . . .
haven’t you all hear what happens when you ASSume that you know things?