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In Remembrance

October 6, 2009 by admin 6 Comments

Ethelyn Alberta Bennett was born January 3rd, 1915 in Bushton, Kansas, the daughter of Albert and Ethel Appel.

On December 2, 1945 she was united in marriage to Willis J. Bennett in Bushton, Ks. They shared nearly forty-two years of marriage before Willis passed away on February 26, 1987.

Ethelyn’s father died when she was only eleven years old, the oldest of five children. Her mom and siblings worked together to make a life and survive. She worked during high school as a telephone operator to supplement the family income and later, put herself through college. She loved and taught all kinds of music at all levels and spent her last teaching years teaching third grade. She especially enjoyed singing in the church choir for many years.

After he husband died, she carried on. However she nearly feel when her son died at the age of forty-one, but she managed to keep afloat by staying busy and involved at church and community affairs. She loved to memorize and perform readings for groups. Although she slowed down a litle when she had breast cancer, it was not for long. She later slowed a bit as she lost more and more vision from glaucoma and macular degeneration. Her heart attack in the fall of 2006 slowed her down a lot. A move was made to assisted living shortly thereafter, but she was still able to remain active. Kidney failure in 2008 slowed her down a lot more, anda move was made to the nursing home. Then in August 2008, a move to Texas helped her regain soem of what she had lost, and life had some equilibrium for a time. She persevered again. Always faithful to her Lord and family, she never wavered from what she believed and lived.

Ethelyn was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, aunt, and cousin. She will be deeply missed and remain in the hearts and thoughts of her family and many friends forever.
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The photo above was the last photo we took with her- it was taken at Christmas in 2008. Pictured are her three granddaughters and great grand-daughter: from left to right- my sister Meg holding baby Briella, my cousin Janna (Briella’s mama), and yours truly. Grandma has another great granddaughter- my niece, Tatum. Her mama, Amy wrote a very nice tribute to Grandma as well. You can read it, here. I just realized in writing this, that Amy, Janna, Meg and myself all blog. Great minds think alike!
I have spent my whole life knowing grandma, but didn’t know until I read the above that her middle name was Alberta. I love it. I think someday, if I’m ever blessed with a girl child, I’ll have to use that name. It has been a long-standing tradition in that family to use names of the forefathers/fathers/mothers/grandmothers. For instance, my great great grandfather came over from Whales when he was 16- my cousin’s middle name was his first name. My uncle’s first name was also the first name of my great grandfather. My mother’s name is taken from the first part of Grandma’s name, and her middle name was taken from my grandfather’s middle name. I think that sort of tradition is wonderful.
It had been years since I’d been to the cemetery where Grandpa B was buried. It is one of the prettiest cemeteries I’ve ever seen. I can’t think of too many place that are prettier than that for a final resting spot.
I love you and miss you, Grandma!

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  1. Maureen@IslandRoar says

    October 6, 2009 at 4:39 pm

    It sounds like she had a wonderful full life. We should all hope for as much, no?

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  2. Slyde says

    October 6, 2009 at 6:23 pm

    you know i have a special place in my heart for grandchildren who stay close to their grandparents…

    that was beautiful..

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  3. Dusty Devoe says

    October 7, 2009 at 2:23 am

    What a beautiful post about your grandmother. Cherish those memories.

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  4. Adventure Mom Janna says

    October 8, 2009 at 12:07 pm

    Thanks for sharing her story. It's all the little things too that made Grandma so memorable- like how she would save the candy she got from different functions and wait until we visited and dole it out to us one piece at a time. Do you remember that?

    Or how she sewed up the runs in her nylons and bobby pinned her hair before bed everynight and oh!!! those sunshine dills she used to make. I can't wait to get together again and tell stories about our memories of Grandma.

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  5. Bina says

    October 8, 2009 at 5:56 pm

    She sounds like she was truly a wonderful, loving, and very independent woman. You were so very lucky to have her in your life.

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  6. BeautifulDisaster311 says

    October 9, 2009 at 12:07 am

    Your grandmother sounds like she was a neat lady. What a nice memorial! I am so naive sometimes–I can't believe I didn't put two and two together earlier in realizing that you and Janna are cousins!

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