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Unexpected Loss, Part 1.

September 26, 2018 by ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~ 2 Comments

This year has been a whirlwind of unexpected loss and I’ve done a terrible job writing about all of it.  I’ve kept the world updated on Instagram, but not everyone is on Instagram, so it’s time to share the goings on, here.

To start, we have to go all the way back to May.

On May 16, 2018, I had to say goodbye to one of my dearest friends, Gump. 

That day was the last day I got to rub his neck, or place my head in his mane.  When I had a bad day, he could be counted on to turn it around. At 22, Gump wasn’t exceptionally old, but in his 22 years he lived a lot of life.  For several years he’d found himself retired. He’d had kids groom him, but hadn’t been ridden since around 2013, as his arthritis had gotten the better of him. I retired him from barrel racing in 2012. 

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He had the kindest eyes. 
He was the furriest of furry creatures in the winter! He was super fluffy and lovable! 

He was the fastest horse I’ve ever thrown a leg over. And also one of the kindest. He pretty much taught me how to rope in a branding pen (I’m still not a good roper but he kept me safe nonetheless). You couldn’t have a bad ride on him. It simply wasn’t possible. 

He was solid as an oak, and always tried hard. We ran barrels in Kansas, Oklahoma, and Texas, as well as here at home. 

He was a gift. And I mean in the literal sense as well. He was what my Cowboy gave me for my 31st birthday. 

At first, Gump was hard for me to catch, because I carried a lot of angst, anger and agenda in me. He read me better than I read myself. He taught me, how to be better. How to have more patience. How to read a situation. How to come at him with no agenda, simply to be his friend. He changed the way I look at the horse-human relationship. He taught me, and others, plenty in his lifetime. I am forever grateful. 

I knew his time might be coming, but I wasn’t ready. To make matters worse, the Cowboy was gone when the decision had to be made. So it was up to me to do the best thing for my friend and that decision is never easy. He will be missed by this entire family.

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About ~The South Dakota Cowgirl~

Jenn Zeller is the creative mind and boss lady behind The South Dakota Cowgirl. She is an aspiring horsewoman, photographer, brilliant social media strategist and lover of all things western.

After a brief career in the investment world to support her horse habit (and satisfy her mother, who told her she had to have a “real” job after graduating college), she finally took the leap and stepped away from a regular income; trading the business suit once and for all for cowgirl boots, a hat, and jeans. She has not looked back.

When Jenn first moved to The DX Ranch on the South Dakota plains, she never imagined she’d find herself behind a camera lens capturing an authentic perspective of ranching, and sharing it with others. Jenn has always been called to artistry, and uses music, writing, images, home improvement, and her first true love of horses to express her ranching passion.

Horses are the constant thread and much of her work centers around using her unique style of writing to share her horsemanship journey with others in publications such as CavvySavvy, the AQHA Ranching Blog, the West River Eagle, the family ranch website, and her own website.

Using photography to illustrate her stories has created other opportunities -- Jenn’s brand “The South Dakota Cowgirl” has grown to the level of social media “Influencer”. This notoriety has led to work with Duluth Trading Company, Budweiser, Wyoming Tourism, Vice, Circle Z Ranch and Art of the Cowgirl, to name a few. She also serves as a brand ambassador for Woodchuck USA, Arenus Equine Health, Triple Crown Feed and Just Strong fitness apparel. Her photography has been featured by Instagram, Apple, TIME Magazine, The Huffington Post, and Oprah Magazine. Jenn’s work has been published internationally, has been seen in several books and has graced the covers of several magazines.

Jenn became a social media influencer by accident when she started to explore Instagram as a way to share her life on the ranch with folks that don’t get to experience it. It’s grown into an incredible platform that she uses to empower women, create an environment for self improvement and share life on the ranch.

When she’s not working, she loves to drink coffee, play with her naughty border collie named Copper, start ranch colts, and run about the country chasing cans. Her mother still thinks she doesn’t have a “real” job.

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  1. Alice boyd says

    September 26, 2018 at 10:35 am

    Ah loss of a friend and family member

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  2. Jal says

    September 27, 2018 at 12:54 am

    He left behind something invaluable, the way you see horses and your approach.
    I did see this on Instagram but I sure enjoyed reading the story behind it.
    I went to read Gumo’s last ride, this fluff ball sure had the kindest look!
    Sorry for your loss, Jenn
    Jal

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